You know, I think it's really great to spend time with people who don't share the same views as you. As much as I hate to debate with people, it's good for you and your faith. I spent the weekend with my friend Rochelle, and although we're both Christians, we have some very different views and opinions on things in the Bible. At first I was apprehensive about talking with her and sharing my opposing view, but I realized she would listen and understand. I actually really enjoyed it. 

Too often people get into heated debates and have no respect for their opponent, which is why I avoid debates of any type. I think despite how it CAN turn out sometimes, you should engage in these conversations. It forces you to actually think about what you believe in and to analyze why you believe what you do. Even if their argument is better than yours, you aren't wrong. You just need to learn more. And you can even learn things you didn't realize before.